March 2013
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February 2013
13 posts
This double standard really pisses me off
Allistic person: I still have plush toys and get excited over little things, I'm such a big kid lol
Society: Wow, you're so *~*qUiRkY*~* and original!
Autistic person: I still have plush toys and get excited over little things, I'm such a big kid lol
Society: Oh, you're a forever baby. Do your parents know where you are? This is proof you shouldn't be allowed out on your own.
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anime →
please note that I only want to watch SOME of these
Valentines Day
so, a cute Asian guy asked me out today… I had to tell him “no”
basically ‘cause I have far too much baggage to be in a relationship
*sigh*
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Mom “creative people don’t fit in a little box. And that’s ok, the world understands”
yes, the world understands. I believe this like I believe the moon is made of green cheese
Mom “the fact that you think differently doesn’t mean that you are mentally ill”
if so, neither does it mean that I am NOT mentally ill/depressed etc
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re: last post
also, tumblr is my designated place to be an idiot on the internet… you were all forwarned
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Mom
dear Mom: just ‘cause you have a magical sense that wakes you up when I am awake does not mean
a) anyone else does/I am waking up anyone but you by being awake
b) I am responsible for you being awake
c) I want to talk to you
d) I am responsible for entertaining/loving you now that you are awake
also, if I ask you not to talk to me unless something is urgent, “Dad is having...
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so, my depression is currently kicking my ass to the point of not eating at my place, not wanting to do anything but sleep etc
haven’t been to church in 3 weeks, games night since before Christmas and don’t really hope for it to get better…
I’m basically staying at my folks so I’ll eat enough to survive…
so Mom was playing cards with me and I was laughing...
January 2013
3 posts
Help get a wheelchair user into accessible... →
bunnika:
That’s me and my little girl. Figured a good place to start out is just showing who needs help.
I’ve been a wheelchair user for almost a year now, but do not have a wheelchair-accessible apartment. This is painful as all hell, and is only getting worse, as my GP is on maternity leave for three more months, and her replacement refuses to prescribe pain meds for me. I don’t have a...
Help get a wheelchair user into accessible... →
bunnika:
That’s me and my little girl. Figured a good place to start out is just showing who needs help.
I’ve been a wheelchair user for almost a year now, but do not have a wheelchair-accessible apartment. This is painful as all hell, and is only getting worse, as my GP is on maternity leave for three more months, and her replacement refuses to prescribe pain meds for me. I don’t have a...
December 2012
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November 2012
2 posts
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my intent is not to hurt but to understand
k, so I am going to post here a facebook convo from myself and etsyReichi
*insert small talk between us here*
etsyReichi: Why don’t you ever call me?
Have you talked to Bronyfriend lately, btw. His lack of showing up to Minotaur and not responding to my texts is starting to bother me.
me: I called him before Nekobakaz’s housemate B
he is alive
etsyReichi: Yeah, he finally...
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What's Going on in the Rockaways and NYC
chezapocalypse:
On Friday, Mara (who is far more active than I in nonprofits and volunteer works) pointed me towards Astoria Recovers, which was organizing volunteers to go down to the Rockaways and help out down there. I’d tried signing up with other organizations, which hadn’t gotten back to me, so we went with this one. The recovers people are part of a greater, more spread out movement...
September 2012
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oh hey, Neko got back to me
woo!
“Most gay YA with gay main characters ends with the main character not getting...”
– “Realistic:” How Queer Kids Don’t Get Happy Endings by Sarah Diemer (via monkeyknifefight)
M or F by Lisa Papademetriou and Chris Tebbetts does NOT end like this
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k, so I need to know whether I need to ask TheLegacy for a ride to D&D tommorrow tonight at games
but nekobakaz is not answering her phone or her asks
*whine whine flail*
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Please help.
tal9000:
shwetanarayan:
fuckyeahsexpositivity:
benfodens:
Okay Tumblr, here is the deal, I need your help. All of your help.
My mom works for Chrysalis, a nonprofit domestic violence shelter in Phoenix, Arizona. I cannot praise Chrysalis enough, honestly.
It’s the only domestic violence shelter in the valley that caters to all victims - women and men. Gay, lesbian, transgender, straight,...
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Empathy Test →
nekobakaz:
apsies:
jessamama:
wildjillruckus:
knocked-up-nerd:
midgetnazgul:
58. Not surprising.
Your score: 12 0 - 32 = low (most people with Asperger Syndrome or high-functioning autism score about 20) 33 - 52 = average (most women score about 47 and most men score about 42) 53 - 63 is above average 64 - 80 is very high 80 is maximum
12. i’m not even kidding.
26.
You guys....
so I received a birthday card in the mail from my parents today
in it Dad said “Mom is sending this a little early”
my birthday isn’t for over two months
THANK YOU CAPTAIN UNDERSTATEMENT!
Reblog to support 12-year-old Caitlin Blackwood
ameliaapond:
lockedin221b:
Caitlin, Karen Gillan’s cousin and the younger Amelia Pond on Doctor Who, is currently being attacked via Twitter. She’s now the victim of cruel comments, such as being called ugly and a terrible actor.
This is flat out bullying, and it’s disgusting and horrifying.
These things should never happen to ANYONE, let alone a young girl.
Please show your support for...
Her eyes glittered queerly-So did the rest of... →
oldfilmsflicker:
cheapvodka:
I’m getting evicted on Monday. I have no money to my name right now. My parents will not help me. I was unaware this was coming because my roommate kept me in the dark that he wasn’t paying rent. He stole my money. He also split and left me here.
I have a cat. There are no shelters in Kingston, Ontario at the moment who can take me, and him.
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saathi1013:
apalapucia:
things it is okay to do:
dislike moffat’s writing
dislike moffat
think his writing is sexist/racist/homophobic etc
write meta or essays on why you think it is sexist/racist/homophobic and how it could be improved
point out plot flaws on tumblr (this isn’t “overthinking” a kids show jfc)
are you
getting
the picture
things is it NEVER okay to do:
send...
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hey, being triggered can make one angry and lash out inappropriately right?
‘cause I may have screwed up in anger of minor trigger-ness…
opps
oh and if I write something in paranthesis (like this) please read it, it is important
I love you all
Ellelarondelle
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I hate when I edit a post and then tumblr adds all these hyperlinks I can’t remove in the tags (‘cause they’re too big to show the x) and I have to remake an old post and delete the original and lose the links to the responses to it :(
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dear autistics
dear autistics,
just fyi, I am borrowing/adapting the “actually autistic” tag for “actuallyace”
hope you don’t mind
much love
Ellelarondelle
edit: apparently the correct tag is “actually asexual”, thanks goldenheartedrose
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zebra_bunny
hey nekobakaz, apparently zebra_bunny is gray ace too :)
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schmittywerbenjagermanjensen:
I am so sick about taking flack from Christians about being depressed.
Because, you know, sorrow was never portrayed in the bible or anything.
*offers hugs*
“People are saying a lot of bad things and boycotting my restaurant,” Scott Van...”
– Scott Van Duzer, the Obama hugger: Shop facing boycott
(via brooklynmutt)
People who haven’t even eaten at this restaurant, hell, who don’t even live in the same state are attacking this guys yelp profile and trying to destroy his business.
It amazes me, these people are trying to destroy a...
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another weird dream
k, so I had another awesome/weird dream, so I’m going to try to recount it
it does semi-sort of include sexy-time weirdness (and anything that does include either sexytimes or sexytime weirdness will be tagged tw:sexytimes )
you were forwarned
in the dream, I was travelling backwards in time
I kept going through incorrect choices for how to get through one very hard scenerio (it...
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k, I just woke up from a weird and awesome dream
I (and nekobakaz, but I wasn’t aware of her at first) were on this weird balloon floating city thing travelling upwards (and fleeing some sort of huge natural disaster thing)
and we each had like compartment things below us
and my compartment things held like 3 people one above the other and two cats diagonal-ish from each other(the cat...
Do not send celebrities hate.
ourstars:
Do not send celebrities hate.
Do not send celebrities hate.
DO NOT SEND CELEBRITIES HATE.
Do not send celebrities hate.
things you should not do:
send celebrities hate
JUST DON’T SEND HATE TO CELEBRITIES.
IT
IS
NOT ACCEPTABLE
OKAY.
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hey followers,
please help me figure out how to say “I’m basically Jack Harkness but ace” except in something that could fit more easily in a subtitle
I dreamt about chicken fingers and fries…
now I want some
but all I have is soup
:(
angrybabybirdofprey:
okay can we just one last thing
spreading the idea that one is only triggered when having a full blown, system-shut-down panic attack is damaging and delegitimizing to people who have physiologically and emotionally different reactions to triggers.
like slow burning, long lasting unease and fear.
that’s a trigger reaction too.
please stop.
